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Judgey JERKS and the Cost of Doubt

February 23, 2024β€’2 min read

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We get so frightened to announce we are doing something new.

The fear of being judged by loose acquaintances and former coworkers on LinkedIn is FAR greater than our willingness to do the thing we actually want to do.


Who does she think she is? Is she REALLY qualified? That's a dumb idea. It won't work.

How much has doubt cost you?

It's an interesting question - because you wonder if you had the cajones to move in a new direction, would you have a Sliding Doors situation?

Personally, I've been experiencing this annoying doubt myself.

I have amazing clients who are completely crushing it right now (love you, ladies!). πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

Opportunities, confidence, and the outcomes they've been working towards are all being realized. Y-E-S! πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―


In order to grow the impact of my coaching business, I need to show up differently.

I need to serve where I'm not hiding behind an IG post or fiddling around with my back-end systems which feels like work.


I've been pushing it off. Procrastinating. Doing my laundry 🧺 vs. doing the stuff that moves the needle. πŸ“ˆ

I think it's called procrasti-cleaning? 🧹️ πŸ˜‚

You, too?

But again, what scares the be-jeezus out of you?

What would you do if you knew that showing up for others would positively impact 20 lives this year?

Well, I decided to leave the laundry pile and announce something you keep telling me you're struggling with....

Your adult friendships. πŸ‘― Your connections. πŸ§β€β™€οΈπŸ§β€β™€οΈ Your network of people who would drop everything in a heartbeat to hook you up. 🫢 πŸ€—


5 Simple Strategies to Build Your Personal Advisory Board

Design your inner circle to be as high level as your professional circle.

What you'll walk away with:

πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ Tools to create a rock-solid support network without lame-ass networking events

🀩 Identify the best fits for your personal advisory board

πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ How to shift old relationships that no longer serve you

πŸ’ Creative ways to organically create trusted, true, deep relationships

Grab your spot here.

And while we are on the topic of relationships, make sure you catch up with the latest episode of Late Learner Podcast.


EP206: BETTER TOGETHER: 5 Uncommon Love Tips for a Rock-Solid Relationship



PS. I've been craving less heaviness and more laughter. The triumphant return of Larry and Amy are doing the trick! Love the surprise Jimmy Buffett cameo. RIP.

PPS. Since this is a month to think about togetherness, have you thought about partnering to adjust your lifestyle so you've got room and energy to move? Schedule a free breakthrough call with me and let's see if we can make magic together.

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Allison Hare

Allison Hare is the former sales executive turned lifestyle entrepreneur. She’s the host of the award-winning, top 1.5% globally ranked podcast, Late Learner and a personal coach for professional mothers and a keynote speaker.

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